Tuesday, 02 December 2008

• Confused..is it really hopeless?

  I have a wee bit of a problem here. The thing is i am seeing someone who hasn't quite gotten over his ex girlfriend. He did mention to me that he and her were kind of almost on the verge of getting married but never quite got to that stage cos he lost feelings for her. We have been hanging out a lot in the past few weeks..but till last friday I screwed up. We hung out a lot, spent a lot of time together and I am very sure there was something going there...

  It goes like this:

  Me: i heard something from a friend of yours that u proposed and u were going to marry ur gf next year

  He: who on earth told u that, its not true...

  Me: A human being..i can't tell u who

  He: Don't patronize me, i want u to tell me who it is

  Me: i can't betray my friend

  He: Fair enough, in so doing, u know that u are going to pay a price for this

  Me:  I cant help it..if u think that way

  A day later: ( he) You asked me if we were going anywhere a week ago, well i can tell u now, its hopeless, i don't want to hold u back, its time to move on. You pushed too many of my buttons...and i just dont feel good about it.

  Me: Is there any way i can make it up to you?

  He said: be my friend thats it.

   

  Is it really hopeless? The thing is, he gives me many confusing signals and he is still as nice to me...is there anything that can be done to rectify the situation? I am at a loss here.

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